My wife, Rachel, and I have an incredibly strong, committed relationship. We are open with each other, communicate effectively and are completely transparent with what we do and what we want.

I always like to make that clear whenever I share this experience with anyone because I have had many people raise an eyebrow (or two).

Actually, I have had many people react quite intensely when they hear this, mostly I think because they just don’t understand, and because of society really moulding them into believing there is really only one ‘right’ way of doing things.



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HUNDREDS of sex-hungry Brits were left sweaty and satisfied this weekend as they enjoyed three-days of "anything-goes" swinging in the blistering heat.

Around 30 caravans descended on JayDee’s House of Fun near the sleepy village of Little Staughton, between Beds. and Cambs., for the fun-filled orgy, which raged from Friday to Sunday.

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Although swinger practices have become more common every day, entering them is not always comfortable for our partner.

When you’re trying to get flirty with your partner but not fully X-rated, knowing some sexy texts to send a partner can turn up the heat without boiling over. Maybe you’re 30 minutes into your fourth Zoom meeting of the day and you’re feeling a little sensual but don’t want to full-on sext. According to Dr. Carla Marie Manly, clinical psychologist and author of Joy from Fear, sexy texting can feel fun and exciting, especially in long-term relationships.

According to Manly, sexy texting is fun and exciting, but it also helps build your connection. “All relationships require care and maintenance,” she tells Bustle. “When sexual intimacy is nurtured as an important element, the relationship tends to stay very bonded over time.”


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“Swinging,” in its most common form, is a consensual sexual arrangement in which two or more couples essentially swap partners with each other and have sex, either in couples or otherwise. Rosen shares that most couples who start swinging together begin the lifestyle after having been in their relationship for a while as a way to spice things up and introduce something new into the partnership. “As relationships grow, it’s important to continuously add novelty inside and outside of the bedroom,” she tells Bustle.

In her live video, Paul told her followers that she, her husband, and several other couples were all “intimate” with each other. While she didn’t go into extreme detail, it was implied that there were some sexual elements to these interactions — but she and another mom’s husband went further than the others involved by having fully penetrative sex. In this case, they broke a boundary agreed upon by the entire group, all of whom were close friends. As Rosen explains, swingers can take all different forms. “Some people have lifelong groups of friends that they swing with, while some people have strict rules about only swinging with couples while on vacation with the expectation that they will never see those folks again,” she says.

The key element that separates swinging from other forms of non-monogamy or relationship anarchy is that couples always “swing” together, and often with other couples. In open relationships or ethically non-monogamous styles, most often the partners involved will date or have sex separately from each other.

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