Q: Kristin has an interesting question for The Cooper and Anthony Show about orgies and chapstick because she’s allergic to bees and beeswax. She’s worried that at her first swingers party there will be people there who have used beeswax products like chapstick. So how will she deal with an orgy situation since she can’t kiss anyone or receive oral sex if they are wearing chapstick or any kind of lip products that contains beeswax. How does she deal with this?

A: Our Dr. Cooper has been to her share of sex parties. She, of course, had an answer. She said: Sex parties and orgies aren’t like in the movies where its just piles of people having sex with each other indiscriminately and you just jump in like its double dutch jump rope. Not even close.

CONSENT IS THE ORDER OF THE DAY AT ORGIES
People approach each other, and they get verbal consent, it’s the NUMBER ONE rule, they say, “Would you like to join us?” or some version of “Can I touch you?” Then when they do ask, that is your opportunity. You can say, “Yes, but I have to ask, are you wearing chapstick, I have a severe beeswax allergy.” And carry some sort of baby wipe or make up remover wipe with you (or whatever you use to take it off sufficiently) and ask them if they would mind.

Nobody will think that’s weird. People have personal rules and they are expected to assert them in those environments.


2 OTHER ORGY RULES FOR YOU
Two more pieces of advice:

Don’t get too drunk. You should have one to relax but getting drunk at a sex party is always a big mistake. You are more likely to do something you regret, consent to something you might not be into or worse for you…kiss someone who is wearing chapstick
Don’t take rejection personally. Rejection is part of the territory. You don’t know if you remind someone of their ex, you’re just not their type or you’re too much their type and they don’t want that.

4 TIPS IN DEALING WITH ALLERGIES AND SEX
Open Communication: It’s important to be open and honest about your allergies. Mentioning your allergy to beeswax is a responsible way to ensure any sexual situation is aware of any potential issues.
Before the Date: If possible, you can send a light-hearted text before the date, like, “Hey, looking forward to our date! Just so you know, I’m allergic to beeswax, so if you’re into chapstick, that’s a hard pass in case we hit it off”
During the Date: If the topic of chapstick or kissing comes up naturally, you can use humor to address your allergy during the meet up. Like, “btw, my kisses are allergen-free. Can’t let those sneaky beeswax molecules ruin the romance!”
Carry Medication: Always carry any necessary medication with you, such as an antihistamine or an epinephrine auto-injector (if your allergy is severe). This will help you feel more secure in case of accidental exposure.

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What were the top selling sex toys in 2022:

Magic Wand Mini: The Magic Wand Mini is a compact and portable version of a wand massager. It is known for its potency and is often used for external clitoral stimulation, providing intense vibrations.

WeVibe Chorus: The WeVibe Chorus is a couple vibrator that provides simultaneous stimulation for both partners during intercourse. It is used internally by the woman, stimulating the G-spot, while also offering external vibrations to the clitoris.

Ohnut Vibrating Ring: The Ohnut Vibrating Ring is a vibrating ring designed to be placed at the base of the penis. It can help maintain a firmer erection and prolong intercourse. In addition, the ring can vibrate, providing additional stimulation for the partner.

Womanizer Starlet 2: The Womanizer Starlet 2 is a clitoral stimulator that uses gentle suction technology to deliver intense pleasure. It stimulates the clitoris without direct contact, offering a unique pleasure experience.

Maude Drop: The Maude Drop is a discreet and elegant vibrator designed for internal and external stimulation. It can be used for G-spot stimulation, clitoral stimulation or any other erogenous area of the body.

Smile Makers The Poet: The Smile Makers The Poet is a classic vibrator with a discreet and elegant design. It can be used for external clitoral stimulation or for internal G-spot stimulation.

Lelo x Diesel Tor 2 Vibrating Ring: The Lelo x Diesel Tor 2 Vibrating Ring is a vibrating cock ring that helps improve erection and prolong sexual intercourse. In addition, the ring has a small extension that can be used for clitoral stimulation.

Fleshlight Blue Ice Blowjob Simulator: The Fleshlight Blue Ice Blowjob Simulator is a male sex toy designed to simulate an oral sex experience. It has a textured interior that mimics the feel of a blowjob.

LELO Sila: The LELO Sila is a clitoral stimulator that uses sonic pulsation technology to provide gentle, deep stimulation. It is designed to wrap around the clitoris and provide intense, pleasurable sensations.

LELO Sona 2: The LELO Sona 2 is another clitoral stimulator that uses sound waves for stimulation without direct contact. It offers intense and precise stimulation of the clitoris, providing powerful orgasms.

Remember that choosing a sex toy is personal and the most important thing is to find something that gives you pleasure and comfort.

These are just a few examples of the most popular sex toys in 2022. The sex toy industry is constantly evolving, so there may be other products that sold a lot during this time as well.

They’re happening. They’ve been happening for as long as sex has been sex, and people have been people. Groups of people have gathered in various locations, in groups of various sizes and various vibes, with the intention of having sex with each other.

Of course, there are many different iterations of the sex party – the gay sauna; the all-gender dark room at the queer club; swingers parties in tiny villages in the unlikeliest places – and then there are Bacchic orgies on nudist beaches all across the world. There are impromptu sex parties, highly exclusive sex parties, invite-only affairs with themes like “lace and leather”. (Personally, I find these the most cringe of all, but whatever gets you off.)

So, you or your partner has expressed interest in going to a sex party together – perhaps because you’ve always wanted to, perhaps because you’re looking to spice up your sex life, or perhaps because there seems to be a growing cultural interest in non-monogamy, polyamory and good old-fashioned swinging. Whatever the reason, there are a few key things to know before you go.

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Quais foram os brinquedos sexuais mais vendidos em 2022:

Magic Wand Mini: O Magic Wand Mini é uma versão compacta e portátil de um massageador de varinha. Ele é conhecido por sua potência e é frequentemente usado para estimulação externa do clitóris, proporcionando vibrações intensas.

WeVibe Chorus: O WeVibe Chorus é um vibrador de casal que oferece estimulação simultânea para ambos os parceiros durante a relação sexual. Ele é usado internamente pela mulher, estimulando o ponto G, enquanto também oferece vibrações externas no clitóris.

Ohnut Vibrating Ring: O Ohnut Vibrating Ring é um anel vibratório projetado para ser colocado na base do pênis. Ele pode ajudar a manter uma ereção mais firme e prolongar a relação sexual. Além disso, o anel pode vibrar, proporcionando estimulação adicional para o parceiro.

Womanizer Starlet 2: O Womanizer Starlet 2 é um estimulador do clitóris que utiliza tecnologia de sucção suave para proporcionar prazer intenso. Ele estimula o clitóris sem contato direto, oferecendo uma experiência única de prazer.

Maude Drop: O Maude Drop é um vibrador discreto e elegante, projetado para estimulação interna e externa. Ele pode ser usado para estimulação do ponto G, estimulação do clitóris ou qualquer outra área erógena do corpo.

Smile Makers The Poet: O Smile Makers The Poet é um vibrador clássico com design discreto e elegante. Ele pode ser usado para estimulação externa do clitóris ou para estimulação interna do ponto G.

Lelo x Diesel Tor 2 Vibrating Ring: O Lelo x Diesel Tor 2 Vibrating Ring é um anel peniano vibratório que ajuda a melhorar a ereção e prolongar a relação sexual. Além disso, o anel possui uma pequena extensão que pode ser usada para estimulação do clitóris.

Fleshlight Blue Ice Blowjob Simulator: O Fleshlight Blue Ice Blowjob Simulator é um brinquedo sexual masculino projetado para simular uma experiência de sexo oral. Ele possui um interior texturizado que imita a sensação de um boquete.

LELO Sila: O LELO Sila é um estimulador do clitóris que utiliza tecnologia de pulsação sônica para oferecer uma estimulação suave e profunda. Ele é projetado para envolver o clitóris e proporcionar sensações intensas e prazerosas.

LELO Sona 2: O LELO Sona 2 é outro estimulador do clitóris que utiliza ondas sonoras para estimulação sem contato direto. Ele oferece uma estimulação intensa e precisa do clitóris, proporcionando orgasmos poderosos.

Lembre-se de que a escolha de um brinquedo sexual é pessoal e o mais importante é encontrar algo que lhe proporcione prazer e conforto.

Esses são apenas alguns exemplos dos brinquedos sexuais mais populares em 2022. A indústria de brinquedos sexuais está em constante evolução, então pode haver outros produtos que também foram muito vendidos nesse período.

'Once I got over my school-girl embarrassment, it started to feel incredibly inspiring'

‘So, what do you think?’ said my grinning boyfriend. ‘Fancy a couple of nights there?’ The ‘there’ he was referring to was Cap D’Agde, AKA the world’s biggest naturist and ‘lifestyle’ resort and village situated in the South of France. It might be important to note that in this context lifestyle does absolutely not mean statement vase shopping suggestions and recipes for table-scaped dinner parties. Here lifestyle is a catch-all (pun not intended- safe sex is de rigeur) euphemism for what the French would loftily refer to as being a libertine and we’d go for the less melodic swinger.

To rewind somewhat, we were part way through a month long impromptu European road trip that was an escape from London after a tough few months of family illness and bereavement and the end of a claustrophobic lockdown. Making it up as we went along, we’d driven through Holland, Italy, Switzerland, and France staying a few nights when and where we fancied before ending up in Nice, wondering where to go next. As we sat in a French service station googling nearby resorts, Cap D’Agde came up and buoyed by the escapist feel of the trip we thought we’d stop by for two nights.


Originally created for the non-sexual purpose of naturism, it still boasted family-friendly sans swimsuit beaches and leave-your-layers-at-home bars and shops, but in latter years the swinging and fetish community had arrived and it had, to the dismay of many ‘proper’ naturists, become the kind of place about which Channel 4 would make one of their sex documentaries (dicumentaries?). You know, the ones where they hide identities by using an actor that was last heard providing the voice for Gerry Adams in the early 90s and only showing the side of someone’s nose or popping an animal mask on them? I’d never heard of it before but tbh I love those documentaries and my boyfriend has a laissez faire attitude to being clothed and spends a week a year pretty much starkers at Burning Man. So we thought ‘What the hell’, booked a few nights in a swanky looking hotel on site and set off. If nothing else I could pretend I was Louis Theroux, right?

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