Kat and Ams, who use pseudonyms to host their podcast "2 HotWives," are members of the swingers community, along with their husbands.

They met two years ago, and quickly realized they found something special, they told Insider.

Now, Kat and Ams and their husbands travel, go on dates, and sleep together.

Kat and Ams, hosts of the "2 HotWives" podcast, aren't your average best friends.

In addition to sharing gossip and going on double-dates with their husbands, the duo has sex with each others' partners.

The hosts, who use fake names on the podcast to conceal their identities, joined the swingers community four years ago after they separately decided to spice up their 15-year marriages.

"It was life-changing. It made our marriages better. It made our sex lives incredibly better. It helped me realize, for the first time in my life, what it was like to be an individual sexual being, as opposed to just part of a couple," Ams told Insider.

Two years into their parallel journeys of swinging, or having sex with another person's partner, Kat and Ams went on their first four-way date together. They haven't looked back since, and continue to date and have sex with each other's husbands. In 2021, the two couples attended a swingers' cruise, called Bliss Oasis, together.

Almost all of us have an idea, more or less, of what a swinger club is because of what we have heard or seen on TV, because although sexuality is currently a more open topic, there are still certain things that are consider taboo.



A swinger club is a specific social gathering for several couples (men and women) to meet and participate in sexual activities. Swinger clubs are also known as sex clubs and can consist of formal or informal groups that organize sex-related activities, or establishments where clients can engage in sexual acts with other clients.

Sun, surf, sand, sea – and public sex with strangers. These five S’s are a key part of tourism in the Canary Islands, a Spanish archipelago west of Morocco. Unfortunately, what’s fun for humans can be bad for wildlife.

Our new research, released yesterday, found public sex – known as “cruising” – in the Canary Islands is leading to significant degradation of the Dunes of Maspalomas, one of Europe’s last naturally functioning transgressive dune fields (in other words, they move around).

Swingers are couples who engage in group sex or swingers, often at a party hosted by someone from the community. Being part of them is called "being in the lifestyle" -LS, for its acronym in English-. Basically, swingers consider their two-person relationships to be romantically monogamous and sexually open, meaning that they are willing to have sex with outside partners, as long as their partner is in the same role (or in the same room). But there is more to their terminology: What is full swap and soft swap, and what is the difference between them?

Since swingers (along with other forms of consensual non-monogamy) are not culturally acceptable due to society's puritanical views on sex, these communities are largely underground, and only those who participate in them do so in secret. And, as secret groups often do, swingers have created their own language to describe certain common behaviors. "Wife swap", "soft swap", "hard swap" and "full swap" are coded languages ??used to identify what these sexy adventure seekers do.