Entering into the swingers lifestyle is sure to provide some good times, but those first time swinger meet & greet opportunities can be challenging. Unless you’re an outgoing individual who is accustomed to meeting new people and enjoying social gatherings, you might want to be prepared with a few of these tips and tricks on how to break the ice at an upcoming event.

Do Some Initial Research
One of the best ways to alleviate anxiety about swinger meet ups is to do a bit of research about the event you are planning to attend. Doing so can help you be prepared for the festivities, which is important if the swingers meet & greet is themed. If any questions aren’t clarified in the invite or on the organizer’s website, don’t hesitate to call and make some inquiries to get yourself in the right headspace for a successful experience.

Avoid Excessive Drinking
While imbibing a drink to get relaxed before heading off to a swinging meet-up is reasonable, don’t use excessive alcohol or intoxicants to relieve stress. There’s a big difference in having a bit of liquid courage and showing up as a sloppy drunk to meet a bunch of people you don’t know. These types of events are best navigated when sober, so you are present both physically and mentally during the experience.

Avoid Being a Fly on the Wall
While it’s perfectly fine to sit on the sidelines for a bit to evaluate the scene after arriving, not much action is likely to happen if you don’t engage with others at the event. Being a fly on the wall or glued to a chair all night can actually make you look unapproachable to other swinging attendees.

Remember, if you are nervous, you are likely not alone. There are others there who are possibly first timers too, so socializing with them can offer an immediate connection. After all, everyone who is at the meet and greet is there for the same reason—to have fun with like-minded people.

Don’t Be Afraid to Separate
If you’re bringing a partner to the event, it’s perfectly acceptable to go the divide and conquer route. Just be sure to have set rules in place between yourselves to avoid any miscommunications or experiencing a deal-breaker incident.

Read the room to find someone you might want to play with, and be mindful in approaching them respectfully. With both partners actively working the room, it will take far less time to get into the action. However, this might not work for all couples, and some other swingers might feel more comfortable engaging with other couples in unison from the get-go.

Ready to Get Swinging?
Make the most out of your first event with these tips to make connections in one night that can be life changing. With that in mind, baby steps are okay. Not all swinging friendships start with sex right away, but getting a good start at a meet-up can lead to future get-togethers where nothing is taboo.

Let’s face it—in the swingers lifestyle bisexual women are the norm and it’s almost expected that female swingers go both ways. However, when it comes to bi-curious men in the swingers world, reactions and expectations can be quite different due to a long-standing double standard amid the lifestyle. That being said, let’s move along and answer these commonly asked question even among ‘normal’ lifestyles and partnerships.

Does Being Bi-curious Make One Gay?
Absolutely not, and being bi-curious doesn’t even necessarily mean a man is bisexual—the same goes for females. Curiosity may have been what ‘killed the cat’ but it’s certainly what make swinging so much fun! It is completely normal and for men to be curious about sexual relations with others of the same sex.

Why Being a Bi-curious Male is Totally Normal
Some straight men—and likely always will be—may be curious about being intimate with another man…what it feels like…how a male’s semen tastes compared to a woman’s etc. In fact, the practice of male on male intimacy is almost as old as recorded history itself. After all what do you think all those ancient Roman men were doing all day in those baths around the forum? Bi-curious attractions and bisexuality has been around for ages and doesn’t seem to be going anywhere.

Tips for Bi-curious Swinging Men
When swinging with a partner or by yourself, make sure to include that you’re bi-curious on your swingers profile. This will let other know you’re open to explore and see where things lead. Make sure to discuss boundaries in detail with your play partners before deciding to move forward. The lifestyle is open to like minded people and welcoming to all whether online or when visiting a swingers clubs where you’ll likely find a couple open-minded to your bi-curious tendencies.

Alfredo "El Pollo" Saldívar, the goalkeeper who forged most of his career in Pumas, reappeared in the media after publishing an unexpected statement on social networks.

Through his Instagram account, the goalkeeper who today finds himself without a team, after 10 years of defending the goal of Pumas and one more that of Toluca, declared himself a "swinger" together with his partner María Clemente in a photo that was captured by attention in social networks.

“If the chemistry is perfect, it doesn't matter how many connections we make. And it's not that we like prohibited things, it's that we love knowing that nobody prohibits us from anything”, begins the text with which the goalkeeper in recess states that he and María are an open couple.

To read more, follow the news link...

Emmy Blaise and her husband Cal were childhood sweethearts who waited to have sex until they got married – but they ditched their religious upbringing to be in an open relationship

A couple shunned their conservative Christian background after getting married – to become swingers.

Emmy Blaise started dating Cal when she was 17 – and the pair abstained from having sex until they married two years later.

After tying the knot, she felt pressure from the Church to stick to traditional gender roles like wives submitting to their husbands.

To read more, follow the news link...

Alfredo "El Pollo" Saldívar, the goalkeeper who forged most of his career in Pumas, reappeared in the media after publishing an unexpected statement on social networks.

Through his Instagram account, the goalkeeper who today finds himself without a team, after 10 years of defending the goal of Pumas and one more that of Toluca, declared himself a "swinger" together with his partner María Clemente in a photo that was captured by attention in social networks.

“If the chemistry is perfect, it doesn't matter how many connections we make. And it's not that we like prohibited things, it's that we love knowing that nobody prohibits us from anything”, begins the text with which the goalkeeper in recess states that he and María are an open couple.

To read more, follow the news link...