Feeling your partner's lips, mouth and tongue on your penis during oral sex drives you crazy? If oral pleasure was once taboo and reserved for prostitutes, it is now completely part of foreplay, even a sexual act in its own right. Nevertheless, you still wonder what women really think about fellatio. Focus on likes, dislikes and the best ways to ask.
What is the percentage of women who practice fellatio?
A 2021 IFOP survey on the sexuality of European women revealed that 87% of French women questioned had already practiced fellatio. And know gentlemen that this number has been increasing for decades. In fact, in the 1970s, only 55% of them had practiced fellatio at least once in their lives. Today, they are almost 9 out of 10 women.
But do they practice it regularly? The last study that asks the question dates from 2019 and revealed that nearly 80% of women, of all ages because the nuance between the age groups is weak, regularly practiced fellatio. We would therefore be lying to you if you told you that women, at least French women, did not like to suck! Although, we couldn't find any studies on whether to like it or not.
What do those who particularly like?
Those who particularly like fellatio evoke above all taking pleasure in giving pleasure to the other. In other words, they take pleasure by proxy. By feeling your slightest jerks, your moans, your hands tensing in their hair, the undulations of your hips, they take a certain footing there.
Some women also refer to fellatio as the ultimate caress and associate it with proof of love. A good blowjob would therefore be a way of telling the other that we love him. And why not ? The idea put forward by these women is that this act is not so trivial and that by remaining rare, it is much more precious.
Take pleasure by proxy, of course. But fellatio is also an expression of one's own desire as a woman. Some simply like to suck their man and control their pleasure by setting the pace. And there is nothing like gradually feeling a penis that hardens in your mouth until you come. A delight.
Finally, other women argue that they love being used as objects and having their mouth fucked as much as their partner decides. However, one condition remains essential in this context: ask his permission to take his mouth as it should. If she gives it to you, make her completely lose control.
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What do women really think about fellatio?
Swingers turning cruise ships into sex parties with dungeons and naked dating
People looking to get saucy can now have a lot of fun onboard-ship thanks to these super sexy love boats. They even offer naked dating
Swingers are turning cruise ships into saucy love boats.
Kinky role playing, naked speed dating and sex games are all on the menu for couples looking to spice up their holidays on the high seas.
There’s even a dating service set up solely for swinging cruises.
Cruise Ship Mingle has seen a 500% rise in sign-ups.
Founder John Kamau said: “After Covid, it was like a dam broke.
“The website was set up with singles in mind but now 70% of users are couples looking to swing.
“So cruises have been setting up tailor-made trips just for swingers.”
“Lucy”, 40, from Leeds, told us: “My husband and I have been swapping partners on cruise ships for years. It used to be a lot more secretive with things like upside-down pineapples on our cabin doors to let like-minded adults know.
“Now everyone’s up for it because everyone is a swinger.
“And these trips are wild. Anything goes.”
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My Husband Thinks I Owe Him Sex & Had a Complete Meltdown Over It, Ruining My Birthday
Sex can be a challenge for some couples. We have probably all experienced one partner being in the mood while the other isn't quite into it, leading to an argument, hurt feelings, or someone pouting on the couch. But we're all adults here, right? Well, sometimes, not everyone remembers that.
Disagreements only get more fun when alcohol is involved, don't you think? It seems to only escalate conflicts, which leads to even more problems. A woman on Reddit and her husband aren't on the same sex schedule, and he is making a huge deal out of it. Like, the guy was crying over it and trying to make his wife feel guilty on her birthday, which he somehow thought would make her want to sleep with him.
Now, she's over him and his childish behavior. He ruined her birthday, so she aired her frustrations on the Reddit forum Breaking Mom, and got some quality feedback from other moms.
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Open Relationships 101: What You Need to Know Before Taking the Plunge
Open relationships are not a new concept, but they are becoming increasingly popular in modern times. An open relationship is a type of relationship where both partners agree to allow each other to have romantic and sexual relationships with other people outside of the primary relationship. While it may sound like a dream come true for some, open relationships require a great deal of communication, trust, and respect to work successfully. In this article, we will discuss the basics of open relationships and what you need to know before taking the plunge.
Understanding Open Relationships
Open relationships are not the same as cheating or infidelity. In open relationships, both partners have given their consent to see other people outside of their primary relationship. This can include anything from casual dating to long-term relationships. It is important to understand that open relationships require honesty, communication, and respect to work successfully. It is not an excuse to cheat or to avoid dealing with relationship problems.
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My girlfriend wants to try swinging – am I a prude because I don’t want to share?
This week, we hear from a man who’s questioning his relationship after his girlfriend suggested they try swinging.
Although he loves their adventurous sex life, he’s not keen on opening up their relationship in the bedroom – but his girlfriend ‘won’t let it go’.
Should he give group sex and partner swapping a chance? Or would it be better to end things?
Before you go, check out last week’s dilemma, where a woman found her boyfriend in bed with a male friend…
The problem
For the last eighteen months I’ve been seeing a woman I met online. We’re both in our thirties so it’s not exactly ‘young love’ for either of us, but it’s the first time I’ve ever felt so crazy about someone.
She has always liked to wear sexy undies, stockings and high heels during sex, something I haven’t experienced with previous girlfriends, but which I’m quite turned on by. She has also introduced me to some fairly extreme sex practices (after starting gently with handcuffs) and I’ve got to the point where I thought nothing would surprise me.
However, her latest suggestion might be a step too far. She’s admitted that she was a regular ‘swinger’ before we met, and she wants to go back to it, only this time with me. I’ve told her I’m not keen on sharing her, and don’t particularly like the fact that she seems willing to share me, but she just won’t let it go.
She assures me I will love it, and that watching each other have sex with someone else is a real turn on. I just can’t get my brain round that, though she says I’m being a prude.
We planned to marry next year but now I worry that she won’t want to settle down in the way I would. I don’t want to dump her because she’s a fantastic girl in every other way.
Is she right? Am I just being a prude?
Laura says…
Firstly, no, you’re not, you are just being true to yourself.
Secondly, you shouldn’t go ahead with a marriage to someone when you have doubts of any kind, especially serious ones.
It doesn’t sound like your girlfriend is keen to be a one-man-girl sexually, and there’s a risk that she will be just as intent on swinging once you are married. If you aren’t willing to join in, then she may just go ahead without you, and that could well destroy your marriage before it has even got off the ground.
Please don’t convince yourself that things will change after you get married. This issue is something that needs to be sorted out now, to avoid misery in the future.
If you’re sure you won’t change your mind, tell her firmly how you feel and make it clear that you won’t tolerate her engaging in this sort of sexual activity either.
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