Swingers are couples who engage in group sex or swingers, often at a party hosted by someone from the community. Being part of them is called "being in the lifestyle" -LS, for its acronym in English-. Basically, swingers consider their two-person relationships to be romantically monogamous and sexually open, meaning that they are willing to have sex with outside partners, as long as their partner is in the same role (or in the same room). But there is more to their terminology: What is full swap and soft swap, and what is the difference between them?
Since swingers (along with other forms of consensual non-monogamy) are not culturally acceptable due to society's puritanical views on sex, these communities are largely underground, and only those who participate in them do so in secret. And, as secret groups often do, swingers have created their own language to describe certain common behaviors. "Wife swap", "soft swap", "hard swap" and "full swap" are coded languages ??used to identify what these sexy adventure seekers do.
Swinger couples, pay attention: this is the difference between "soft swap" and "full swap"
DEAR DEIDRE I’m married but I might go to a swingers party to have sex with an Italian man
DEAR DEIDRE: I MIGHT be happily married, but I’ll always regret not fulfilling my sexual fantasy of sleeping with an Italian man.
I’m now considering going to a swingers party where apparently there are plenty of “big European men”.
Shocking confession: I cheated on my husband until he agreed to be a swinger
Kristiana, mother of two, was bored with her marriage and wanted to seek a new excitement for her husband. She mentioned that she wanted a swinger (swinger) to add excitement to their marriage that has been going on for 16 years.
Her husband was shocked to hear such a request from his wife of 16 years, but he himself became interested in this business. The couple attended a swinger party and had an unbelievable relationship. Speaking on her TikTok account after the relationship, Kristina said, "I'm very open about monogamy and being with only one person. I'm bisexual and I cheated on my wife many times and then I told my wife I wanted a swinger and that's how our relationship started.
How to be swingers and not die trying?
Swingers or the change of partners consists of making an exchange of partners during certain encounters.
Swingers encounters could take place in public or private spaces and there are also a multitude of places or swinger clubs of this type where you can meet other people or couples with whom to practice such relationships.
Each swinger couple decides how far the relationship leads or not, always by mutual agreement between the two and the third parties involved, with the utmost respect for the limits previously established between those who participate in that sexual encounter.
How I Do It: ‘My husband and I are swingers – nothing is off-limits’
For today’s instalment of How I Do It, we get a sneak peek into a week in the sex life of a happily married swinger.
Active online under the name VistaWife, she is a 29-year-old bisexual hotwife – a woman who has sexual relationships outside her marriage/partnership with said partner’s full knowledge, usually with a view to fulfilling fantasies.
She’s married to a man with whom she shares children, and she and her husband enjoy swinging on a regular basis.
VistaWife is totally happy with her sex life, saying she can ‘experience’ anything she wants to, ‘from all-female orgies to watching my husband play with our unicorn (a single female who plays with couples) there is nothing off-limits’.