They’re happening. They’ve been happening for as long as sex has been sex, and people have been people. Groups of people have gathered in various locations, in groups of various sizes and various vibes, with the intention of having sex with each other.

Of course, there are many different iterations of the sex party – the gay sauna; the all-gender dark room at the queer club; swingers parties in tiny villages in the unlikeliest places – and then there are Bacchic orgies on nudist beaches all across the world. There are impromptu sex parties, highly exclusive sex parties, invite-only affairs with themes like “lace and leather”. (Personally, I find these the most cringe of all, but whatever gets you off.)

So, you or your partner has expressed interest in going to a sex party together – perhaps because you’ve always wanted to, perhaps because you’re looking to spice up your sex life, or perhaps because there seems to be a growing cultural interest in non-monogamy, polyamory and good old-fashioned swinging. Whatever the reason, there are a few key things to know before you go.

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Quais foram os brinquedos sexuais mais vendidos em 2022:

Magic Wand Mini: O Magic Wand Mini é uma versão compacta e portátil de um massageador de varinha. Ele é conhecido por sua potência e é frequentemente usado para estimulação externa do clitóris, proporcionando vibrações intensas.

WeVibe Chorus: O WeVibe Chorus é um vibrador de casal que oferece estimulação simultânea para ambos os parceiros durante a relação sexual. Ele é usado internamente pela mulher, estimulando o ponto G, enquanto também oferece vibrações externas no clitóris.

Ohnut Vibrating Ring: O Ohnut Vibrating Ring é um anel vibratório projetado para ser colocado na base do pênis. Ele pode ajudar a manter uma ereção mais firme e prolongar a relação sexual. Além disso, o anel pode vibrar, proporcionando estimulação adicional para o parceiro.

Womanizer Starlet 2: O Womanizer Starlet 2 é um estimulador do clitóris que utiliza tecnologia de sucção suave para proporcionar prazer intenso. Ele estimula o clitóris sem contato direto, oferecendo uma experiência única de prazer.

Maude Drop: O Maude Drop é um vibrador discreto e elegante, projetado para estimulação interna e externa. Ele pode ser usado para estimulação do ponto G, estimulação do clitóris ou qualquer outra área erógena do corpo.

Smile Makers The Poet: O Smile Makers The Poet é um vibrador clássico com design discreto e elegante. Ele pode ser usado para estimulação externa do clitóris ou para estimulação interna do ponto G.

Lelo x Diesel Tor 2 Vibrating Ring: O Lelo x Diesel Tor 2 Vibrating Ring é um anel peniano vibratório que ajuda a melhorar a ereção e prolongar a relação sexual. Além disso, o anel possui uma pequena extensão que pode ser usada para estimulação do clitóris.

Fleshlight Blue Ice Blowjob Simulator: O Fleshlight Blue Ice Blowjob Simulator é um brinquedo sexual masculino projetado para simular uma experiência de sexo oral. Ele possui um interior texturizado que imita a sensação de um boquete.

LELO Sila: O LELO Sila é um estimulador do clitóris que utiliza tecnologia de pulsação sônica para oferecer uma estimulação suave e profunda. Ele é projetado para envolver o clitóris e proporcionar sensações intensas e prazerosas.

LELO Sona 2: O LELO Sona 2 é outro estimulador do clitóris que utiliza ondas sonoras para estimulação sem contato direto. Ele oferece uma estimulação intensa e precisa do clitóris, proporcionando orgasmos poderosos.

Lembre-se de que a escolha de um brinquedo sexual é pessoal e o mais importante é encontrar algo que lhe proporcione prazer e conforto.

Esses são apenas alguns exemplos dos brinquedos sexuais mais populares em 2022. A indústria de brinquedos sexuais está em constante evolução, então pode haver outros produtos que também foram muito vendidos nesse período.

'Once I got over my school-girl embarrassment, it started to feel incredibly inspiring'

‘So, what do you think?’ said my grinning boyfriend. ‘Fancy a couple of nights there?’ The ‘there’ he was referring to was Cap D’Agde, AKA the world’s biggest naturist and ‘lifestyle’ resort and village situated in the South of France. It might be important to note that in this context lifestyle does absolutely not mean statement vase shopping suggestions and recipes for table-scaped dinner parties. Here lifestyle is a catch-all (pun not intended- safe sex is de rigeur) euphemism for what the French would loftily refer to as being a libertine and we’d go for the less melodic swinger.

To rewind somewhat, we were part way through a month long impromptu European road trip that was an escape from London after a tough few months of family illness and bereavement and the end of a claustrophobic lockdown. Making it up as we went along, we’d driven through Holland, Italy, Switzerland, and France staying a few nights when and where we fancied before ending up in Nice, wondering where to go next. As we sat in a French service station googling nearby resorts, Cap D’Agde came up and buoyed by the escapist feel of the trip we thought we’d stop by for two nights.


Originally created for the non-sexual purpose of naturism, it still boasted family-friendly sans swimsuit beaches and leave-your-layers-at-home bars and shops, but in latter years the swinging and fetish community had arrived and it had, to the dismay of many ‘proper’ naturists, become the kind of place about which Channel 4 would make one of their sex documentaries (dicumentaries?). You know, the ones where they hide identities by using an actor that was last heard providing the voice for Gerry Adams in the early 90s and only showing the side of someone’s nose or popping an animal mask on them? I’d never heard of it before but tbh I love those documentaries and my boyfriend has a laissez faire attitude to being clothed and spends a week a year pretty much starkers at Burning Man. So we thought ‘What the hell’, booked a few nights in a swanky looking hotel on site and set off. If nothing else I could pretend I was Louis Theroux, right?

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The swinger lifestyle community is a diverse and vibrant mosaic of people from all walks of life. The ethos of the lifestyle is premised on the freedom to explore one’s sexuality and the mutual consent of involved parties.

Despite this ethos of acceptance, certain stereotypes, particularly those related to age, have subtly seeped into the community. Ageism, a form of discrimination based on age, has significant implications on the experiences of both younger and older members.

This article will delve into the nuanced phenomenon of ageism in the swinger lifestyle community. We aim to shed light on its manifestations, its impacts, and ultimately, strategies that can be used to overcome and challenge these age-related stereotypes.

By building on research, lived experiences, and best practices, we’ll illuminate a path towards a more inclusive, equitable swinger community.

Understanding Ageism in the Swinger Lifestyle Community
Stereotypes in the swinger lifestyle community range from the overt to the more subtly ingrained. Ageism, however, tends to skew towards the latter, making it harder to identify and challenge. This section will elucidate the nature and impact of ageism within the swinger community.

A prevalent stereotype is that the swinger lifestyle is primarily for the young and physically attractive.

This stereotype is often perpetuated by media portrayals that hyper-focus on the youthful demographic, thereby excluding older individuals. Consequently, older swingers may feel invisible, undervalued, or even stigmatized within the community.

Similarly, younger swingers also grapple with age-related prejudices. They may be deemed inexperienced or too immature to engage fully in the lifestyle. Such attitudes can lead to them feeling disempowered, excluded, or patronized. Thus, ageism impacts both ends of the age spectrum, albeit in different ways.

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The word swingers began to sound back in the democratic spring of the '80s, naming some bars and spaces where the exchange of couples was the convening reason. From there it always had its followers, although the physical spaces for contact were supplanted by networks, applications and the virtual world.
Without numbers on the number of couples who practice it or too many clues about it, because it belongs strictly to the private sphere of people, there are, in any case, some steps to follow and particular customs among cultists.

Walter Hugo Ghedin, psychiatrist, psychotherapist and also a sexologist,
explained what are the reasons why a couple decides to open up to the swinger experience: “The opening of couples to swinger, or to other practices that include other people, included in the relationship, occurs fundamentally for venturing out, for experimenting, for explore new ways of having erotic contacts,
That would have to be the goal or the objective", he explained in El Interactivo (Monday to Friday 12 to 14 by http://ciudadano.news).

For the specialist, "just because a couple has conflicts they are not going to look for that kind of opening, because there surely if they had conflicts they are going directly to failure, to the abyss",
and from there comes one of the first key points of this practice: "The couple has to be consolidated, with good sexual encounters between them, as if to say, let's broaden our gaze and the erotic possibilities of sharing with other couples, or including third parties to the relationship.
That is why agreements are needed that have to be very clear."



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