One distraught Daily Star reader has reached out to agony aunt Jane O'Gorman for advice after a threesome with his work colleagues left his life in freefall

My life is in freefall after I got drunk and let myself down with two female colleagues.

We were on a residential course by the coast. The workshops and lectures were boring, so I spent a lot of time propping up the hotel bar.

On the last afternoon I was joined by workmates who were up for a laugh. We drank wine before moving on to shots.

By 9pm there were only three of us left – me and two women from sales. One suggested grabbing a bottle and going back to her room, so we did.

One thing led to another and we three had sex in her bed. It was wild. The next morning, I was buzzing. My male colleagues jeered as I did the walk of shame to my car.

I got home and was still so horny, that I coaxed my partner into bed where I was on fire.

Two days later my partner went nuclear. Someone had blabbed.

My partner says she no longer wants to be with me, and my boss says he’s “re-assessing my position” because he trusted me to behave myself.

I feel a complete idiot. My partner is an amazing person. How could I betray her? She’s now hiding out with her sister. I’ve tried ringing and texting her, but she refuses to speak to me.

Meanwhile I’m being side-lined and ignored at work. My two female lovers have transferred to another office and the guy I considered my best work mate (who I think was the leak) is strutting around like a peacock.

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ARIES (from 03/21 to 04/19)
You throw a tantrum because your suitor hasn't planned anything, even though you've been saying for six months that Valentine's Day annoys you.

TAURUS (from 04/20 to 05/20)
You had planned a cocooning and somewhat uploaded TV evening, but ruined the surprise by paying for the sushi with your sweetheart's account.

GEMINI (from 05/21 to 06/21)
You arrange to meet a stranger who has previously been insulted by X at a political meeting and forget to ask him his first name when leaving.

CANCER (from 06/22 to 07/22)
You treat yourself to a self-care day based on massage, detox juice and romantic music that will make you cry and stalk your exes.

LEO (07/23 to 08/22)
You arrive 45 minutes late at the Radisson dressed in animal skin, while the diamond wedding ring is waiting for you in the champagne flute.

VIRGO (from 08/23 to 09/22)
You have a breakdown when you notice that your partner has scattered rose petals everywhere and have an allergy to sandalwood candles.

LIBRA (from 09/23 to 10/23)
You are entangled in three poorly organized meetings because you were unable to refuse all the requests and all four end up in a libertine club.

SCORPIO (from 10/24 to 11/22)
You create fake Tinder accounts to sabotage your ex's party and organize a satanic rite with the neighborhood singles.

SAGITTARIUS (from 11/23 to 12/22)
You spend the evening in Las Vegas with strangers and wake up two days later with a ring on your finger and an electronic bracelet on your foot.

CAPRICORN (from 12/23 to 01/20
You enjoy a candlelit pasta dish on video with your crush, while having five professional windows open on the PC.

AQUARIUS (01/21 to 02/19)
You organize an anti-Valentine's Day swingers' party in a squat with unsold petit fours from the local bakery

FISH (from 02/20 to 03/20)
You invite all the lonely souls around you for a home-cooked meal and manage to fit everyone in before midnight (except you).

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Every day more people decide to explore their sexuality through this community that has its specific dynamics.

Many people around the world decide to explore their sexuality, trying ways of relating other than traditional monogamy. In recent years, the swinger community has become popular, mainly recognized for the exchange of partners, although other dynamics also exist. Within it, there are particular codes that allow honest conversations to be held about the desires of the people who participate.

In this framework, the newspaper Clarín spoke with the founder of the Free Swinger Civil Association of Argentina (ASLA), Germán Magallán, who explained that “in each region they have specific words for their community,” although some terms transcend national borders.

Magallán's organization is the first of its kind to obtain legal status. “We estimate that in all of Argentina there are a million people who practice this lifestyle,” the founder declared to Clarín.

“We want to make visible. We are a community, it is a fact. "We need them to know us and know that we exist," said the interviewee, who explained that the idea of creating a civil association is to make known that this type of way of relating and ending discrimination exists.

When it obtained legal status, ASLA stressed in a statement: “So that our lifestyle (which we live with pride) stops being a whisper, a rumor or an urban myth, ASLA has, among other objectives, to be able to initiate negotiations with parliament. Argentinean presenting a bill to provide a regulatory and legal framework for swinger activity.”

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A swingers and fetish members club will not have to its change its licence despite locals complaining of "thudding" music from the venue.

Residents living near to the Penthouse Playrooms in Dunstable in Bedfordshire say they are unhappy about noise late into the night.

But Central Bedfordshire Council said the venue was fitted with a sound limiter which would cut the music off if it reached an unacceptable volume and that it was was found to be working correctly.

Penthouse Playrooms is a swingers and fetish members club for like-minded individuals in the lifestyle, according to a website for the venue.

“We’ve taken over Arousals in Dunstable and have given it a massive refurbishment to create a seriously sexy swingers’ wonderland, licensed bar and playrooms for our members to enjoy,” it said.

The council said it was confident that the site, which shares a building with Dunstable Snooker Club, had not flouted any laws.

The current premises licence authorises the playing of recorded music from 11pm to midnight on Thursdays, and from 11pm to 3am on Fridays and Saturdays.

Central Bedfordshire Council's licensing team manager Nicola O’Donnell told the meeting: “The main concerns relate to noise, while another issue is whether the venue should hold a sexual entertainment licence.

“It’s our understanding it operates as a swingers’ club and doesn’t offer the type of entertainment requiring such a licence.”

Resident Sian Ridgley said: “Since the refurbishment in 2021 from Arousals, we’ve suffered with the music every weekend.

“We appreciate things have been done, although unfortunately it hasn’t stopped the noise. It’s better than it was, but we’re still being disturbed on a weekly basis. The music has been played beyond 3am more than once.

“My daughter is unable to go to bed without hearing the constant thud. It’s affecting us mentally. Once you hear that constant thudding, you can’t unhear it."

She added people have been seen leaving the premises walking down the street “barely dressed”.

However after checking the sound system and noise limiter at the club, Tracey Pattie, from the local authority’s public protection team, said: “The limiter was checked twice and found to be working. There’s no statutory nuisance.”

The levels on the limiter, which are commonplace at music venues near to residential areas, are set by environmental protection and were considered acceptable for the area on High Street North.

Independent licensing consultant Stewart Gibson, representing the venue management, said: “The limiter is locked away in a box on the premises, to which nobody else has access. It can’t be bypassed. A bass speaker has been removed from the premises since the early days.

“If you turn the music up above the permitted level, it cuts out automatically. The premises closes at 3am. When management leave around that time, they’ve heard music coming from a private residence.

“Since 2021, thousands of pounds has been spent improving the premises. Management went beyond what’s been asked by CBC public protection, which says there’s no case to answer.”

Councillor Kevin Collins, who chaired the meeting, said: “No modifications to the current licence will be imposed, with a right of appeal to the magistrates court within 21 days.”

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An anonymous couple – aged 43 and 44 – want to celebrate their wedding by getting jiggy with strangers. They hope to mark the occasion by taking part in an orgy

A pair of swingers will celebrate getting hitched by romping with strangers at an orgy at a sex club.

The couple – aged 43 and 44 – told fellow swingers online: “Mine n andy engagement party /Andys birthday party also. Message us if u r interested in attending and we will put your name down.”

The £20 per couple bash will take place next month at Stoke’s atlantisEvolution club.

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